Growing up, I used to think my mom's insistence on a spotless home was just OCD. Now, I realize she was teaching me about intentional living. Every piece in her home had a purpose and a story—like her collection of elephant figurines, chosen for their family values of protection and togetherness. Her home mirrored her personality: serious, bold, and refined.

I’ve carried this lesson into adulthood, but with my own twist. My home reflects my free-spirited, fun-loving nature. I choose light, luxurious textures that feel as good as they look because comfort matters to me. When guests walk into my home, I want them to feel love, peace, joy, and God's goodness, with the serene scent of essential oils filling the air.

Intentional living is about making choices that align with your values and lifestyle. It’s about being mindful of what you bring into your home and the energy you create. By designing a home that reflects your true self, you create a space that nurtures your well-being and happiness.

One of the first steps in creating a home that reflects your true self is decluttering. Growing up, my mom always said, "Everything has a place." 

Now, I understand the wisdom in her words—by clearing out what no longer serves us, we create room for joy, peace, and spiritual growth. 

When our home is clutter-free, I can relax, think clearly, and feel more at peace. It only takes a few minutes a day to stay organized, which prevents those overwhelming, long cleaning days. 

By removing unnecessary items, you clear both your physical and mental space, allowing more room for the things that truly matter.

Your home should be a reflection of who you are. Whether you love bold colors, minimalist aesthetics, or vintage vibes, your decor choices should showcase your personality. 

Personally, I love comfy, cozy textures that invite relaxation and warmth. Soft throws, fluffy pillows, and warm rugs all add a sense of comfort that makes everyone feel at home.

Here are more ways to infuse your unique style into your space:

• Incorporate personal touches: Display meaningful photos, artwork, or mementos that tell your story.

• Choose colors that speak to you: Color psychology is real! Select shades that evoke the feelings you want to experience at home—whether it's the calming hues of blue or the energizing tones of orange.

• Mix old with new: Don’t hesitate to blend modern furniture with cherished heirlooms. Combining old and new pieces creates a sense of history while staying true to your personal style.

Another personal favorite in my home is maintaining a well-scented space. I love using essential oils to create a calming and welcoming environment. 

Scents like lavender, eucalyptus, and citrus not only smell amazing but also boost your mood and bring a sense of intimacy to the space. Whether it's for you, your family, or guests, a beautiful scent can transform your home into a sanctuary.

• Use essential oil diffusers to release soothing scents throughout your home.
• Opt for candles or reed diffusers in your living spaces to maintain a warm, welcoming aroma.

Whether you’re in a temporary space or your forever home, always create a vibe that makes your space feel like a sanctuary. Your home should be a place of peace, joy, and comfort, no matter the size or location.

Your home is the perfect place to celebrate and honor your family’s traditions. Whether it's holiday decor, a collection of recipes passed down from generations, or even a dedicated corner for family photos, these elements bring a sense of belonging and warmth to your space. Set up intentional areas for these moments, whether it’s a cozy family room for holiday gatherings or a kitchen space that encourages cooking together.

A home that reflects your true self is also one that nurtures relationships. Create spaces in your home that encourage connection, both with your family and friends. A well-designed living room or dining area can become the heart of your home—where conversations, laughter, and love are shared.

• Living Room: Opt for comfortable seating, a layout that invites conversation, and decor that sparks joy.
• Outdoor Spaces: If you have outdoor space, make it inviting. Add comfy seating, warm lighting, and a few plants to turn it into an oasis for relaxation and connection.

Living intentionally isn’t just about decor; it’s also about how you use your space. Be present in your home, take time to enjoy the little moments, and celebrate daily rituals. Whether it's lighting a candle to signal the start of a relaxing evening or brewing your morning coffee as a quiet ritual, these small practices can make your home feel like a sanctuary.

The way your home is arranged impacts how energy flows through it. By paying attention to layout, you can create a space that feels harmonious and balanced. 

For example, ensure your furniture placement allows for free movement and doesn’t block natural pathways. Keep spaces open and light-filled to maintain a sense of flow and ease throughout your home.

Creating a home that reflects your true self is an ongoing journey. It’s about being intentional with your choices, celebrating what matters most to you, and designing a space that nurtures joy and connection.

Whether it’s through cozy textures, delightful scents, or an organized space, you can transform your home into a beautiful reflection of your life, passions, and the people you love.

For more inspiration on leading a life filled with joy, connection, and faith, check out my book, "Your Joy is Your Job. A Real Guide to Living Fully & Authentically."

This book offers practical tips for balancing life’s many demands while staying grounded in purpose. Let’s reclaim our joy—starting with the space around us.

I hope these ideas inspire you to make small but meaningful changes to your home. Your environment has the power to uplift your spirit, and I’m excited to see how you embrace your true self through your space. 

Keep the joy alive, friends!

XOXO,

Jordyn